Quotes

All kind of quotes I tink of as being related to love, kinkyness, relationships, and other lovely aspects of life.
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… and I’m staying

Typeslove

Tagsacceptatie kwetsbaarheid liefde Matt Chandler relatie relatieangst transparantie

2 types of pain

TypesBDSM

TagsHans masochisme pain perceptie pijn sadomasochisme waarneming

A little objectification

Typesself-discovery

Tagsfetish geil objectificatie play seksualiseren

A right to command merely because you are older…

TypesBDSM

An apology has its right place

Typesself-discovery

Tagssorry trots veronstschuldigen

Anxiety turns one back on oneself

Typesself-discovery

Tagsanxiety Auliq Ice desire fear self-discovery

Are you a priority or an option?

Typeslove

Tagsoption priority relatie

Being life’s bitch is no fun at all

TypesBDSM

Tagsauthority BDSM choice control destiny freedom in-control kinky sex

Consent according to FRIES

TypesBDSM self-discovery

TagsBDSM consent Enthusiastic Freely given informed Revocable Specific

Consent is mutual discovery

TypesLust

Tagsconsent

Consent is not…

TypesBDSM Lust

Tagsconsent gelijkwaardigheid overgave seksueel plezier vertrouwen

Continually seduce consent from the bottom

TypesBDSM Lust

Tagsconsent dominant sex-appeal

De kwaliteit van een BDSM-sessie en de nasmaak

TypesBDSM

Tagsaftercare Hans kwaliteit nasmaak oordeel

Denken over ons kompas

Typesself-discovery

Tagsgevoelens Kierkegaard kompas planning

Dirty and nasty but I wanted more

TypesLust

TagsBDSM drugs noir prostitution sex

Dit is je leven

Typesself-discovery

Tagsgroeien Hans herstel kapot maken leven

Does a demand for respect means giving up freedom?

Typeslove

Tagsexlusivity freedom love respect

Een groot nadeel van cheating

Typeshumor Lust

Tagscheating liefdesangst Lust vreemdgaan

Einen Rest von Illusionen

Typeslove relatie

TagsGabriel Marcel illusies

Everything is about sex

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM Oscar Wilde power sex

Fairy tales of how girls can be dangerous

TypesLust self-discovery

Tagscultuur geilheid initiatief kracht Lust Nikita Gill patriarchaat vrouw vrouwelijkheid

Fases in het integreren van kink in een leven

Typeshumor

Tagsuit de kast verkinksteren

Fear that would excite and fear that…

TypesBDSM Lust

Tagsexcite fear Lust paralyze

Geluk: hoofd, hart en bekken op één lijn

Typesself-discovery

Tagsbekken denken geluk hart hoofd voelen

Greta Garbo: I have never had an impulse to go to the altar

Typeshumor

Tagsempowerment equality freedom Greta Garbo independence marriage self-determination singles submission women

Harde grenzen, zachte grenzen, zoete grenzen.

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM groei harde grenzen kicks taboes zachte grenzen

Having someone on their knees for you makes you vulnerable

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM dom domination kneeling

Het risico van “don’t ask, don’t tell”

TypesLust relatie

Tagscheating liefdesangst Lust vreemdgaan

I had no idea it would be like this

TypesBDSM self-discovery

TagsAlexis Hall dominantie For Real macht submission Topping

I hid my shameful perversions under a facade of prudishness

Typesself-discovery

TagsBDSM hypocrisie Ottessa Moshfegh submissie zichtbaarheid

I just want to feel

TypesLust

TagsLaci Paige verliezen voelen

If a relationship has to be a secret…

Typeslove

Tagscheating geheimen love vreemdgaan

if it is the dirty element that gives pleasure

TypesBDSM Lust

Tagsbesmeuren bezoedelen Dirt Lust Marquis de Sade

if someone says that porn is ruining sex

TypesLust

Tagsfantasie instructie kinky sex lust voorbeeld porno seks

If there is already a rip in the fabric of your relationship…

Typesrelatie

Tagsrelatieproblemen relationship scheuren

If you can fake that, you’re in! ;-)

Typeshumor

Tagsfake humor love relationship

If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina

Typeshumor Lust

TagsBetty White tough vagina

In boeien out of the closet

Typesself-discovery

Is it the collar or the happiness?

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM happiness love

Ishtar – Pasen

TypesLust

Tagsbunny ei godin ishtar pasen

It’s been so long since I made love #JoanRivers

Typeshumor

Tagsbondage Joan Rivers Lust

It’s hard to turn the head off

TypesBDSM

TagsCherise Sinclair decisions responsible submission

je hoofd je hart en je bekken op één lijn

Typesself-discovery

Tagsangst begrip bekken Hans West hart hoofd

Labeltjes plakken of in hokjes stoppen?

Typesself-discovery

Tagshokjes hokjesdenken labels

Liebe will aus sich herausgehen

TypesBDSM Lust

TagsCharles Baudelaire liefde verliezen winnen

Looking at porn like it is instruction material…

TypesLust self-discovery

Tagsinstructie materiaal porno voorlichting

Love each other without restraint …unless…

Typeshumor

Tagslove restraint restraints

Love is a wonderful institution but…

Typeshumor

Tagsgrenzen instituut liefde regels relatie vrijheid

Make sure your love exceeds…

Typeslove self-discovery

TagsDalai Lama love needy

My dominant discourse seems to be…

TypesBDSM

TagsAlexis Hall BDSM dominantie needy sarcasme sneer

My sexual fetishes have been getting more perverse

Typeshumor

Tagsperversiteit rock bottom spanking

Nakedness

TypesLust relatie

Tagskortzichtigheid naaktheid ontkleden

Natuurlijk ben ik graag je onbereikbare muze

Typeshumor love

TagsLoesje muze nabijheid

Norceuil’s teachings to Julliette

TypesLust

TagsD.A.F. de Sade slavernij tyrannie

not because she lacks the ability to submit…

TypesBDSM

Tagsdominance safety submit

Of course it hurts!

TypesBDSM

TagsBreanna Hayse play sadism spanking

Over hokjes en labels en diversiteit

Typesself-discovery

Tagsbegrip diversteit gevoelens hokjes labels

Privilege is…

Typesself-discovery

Tagsprivilege zelfinzicht

Proud of how happy I make him

Typesself-discovery

TagsBDSM controlling dominant Willow Madison

Puntentelling voor de slavin

TypesBDSM humor

Tagsgezondheid grenzen s-type slavin

Push it

TypesLust

Tagsdance forceren push it spel verwachting

Rape and fashion?..

TypesLust

Tagsconsent fashion korte rokken rape silence

Relationship without trust

Typeshumor self-discovery

Tagsgames relationship trust

Resentment is a signal

Typesself-discovery

Tagsemotions feelings identity resentment tags: choices women

Rose-coloured glasses and Red Flags

Typeslove

TagsNRE Red Flags verliefdheid waarschuwingen

Running wins

Typeshumor

Tagsfear liefdesangst love relatieangst

S and M is only the expression in the bedroom of…

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM relation

Seduction is enticing someone

Typeslove relatie

Tagseigenlijk verleiding Waiter Rant wensen

Seks is een schitterend oefenveld

Typesself-discovery

Tagsgrenzen heilzaam oefenen seks therapie

Self-pleasuring as a radical act.

TypesLust self-discovery

Tagsself-pleasuring society

Sex and love and tension

Typeshumor

Tagslove sex tension Woody Allen

Sex doesn’t have to conform to society’s standards

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM consensual D/s romance society

Sex is a team sport

TypesLust

TagsLust relation seks sex team

Sex without love is an empty experience…

Typeshumor

Tagsgenot leegte seks Woody Allen

Sex: In America an obsession

TypesLust self-discovery

TagsAmerika Marlene Dietrich moraal seks sex

Shatter your dreams…

TypesBDSM self-discovery

Tagsabuse BDSM Pepper Winters romance Twisted Together

She’s my answer for the need

TypesBDSM Lust

TagsBDSM bdsm-romance dark dark-erotica male-dom pain submissive Willow Madison

Submission is about relationships of love and respect

TypesBDSM

Tagslove respect submission

The ass is…

TypesLust

TagsCharles Bukowski kont schoonheid seks

The Butt is (not) a magical place

TypesLust

Tagsanaal Dan Savage gay-othering

the joy of being a submissive

TypesBDSM

Tagsbeslissen Cherise Sinclair denken intelligentie rolverdeling rust submissie submit

The person that you care for the most…

Typesrelatie

The power of Play!

Typesself-discovery

Tagsconversation play primal self

The two parts of me…

TypesBDSM

Tagsageplay BDSM care queer sadism

There’s “ship” in relationship

Typeslove self-discovery

TagsHans West haven schip werkzaamheden

to serve doesn’t always mean…

TypesBDSM self-discovery

TagsBDSM dienen gehoorzamen Joey W. Hill serving slave

Und wenn du nichts für mich tust…

Typeslove

Tagsacceptance Herbert Grönemeyer liefde onvoorwaardelijk

Unless you’re into leather…

Typeslove

TagsBDSM boeien chaos love restraints

Vertrouwen is een gevoel

Typeslove

Tagsvertrouwen

Wat het is om slavin te kunnen zijn

TypesBDSM Lust

Tagserynn liefkozen respect slaan vrijheid

We zijn de SMet…

TypesBDSM

Tagsburgerlijk erotiek vlek

What irritates us about others…

Typesself-discovery

TagsCarl Gustav Jung irritation lessons understanding

What kind of sex is worth…

TypesLust relatie

Tagskwaliteit levenskwaliteit Peggy Kleinplatz seks

What spring does with cherry trees

Typeslove

Tagsbloeien kersenbloesem lente Pablo Neruda voorjaar winter

What the anti-kink fanatics don’t understand about us is that we’re geeks

TypesBDSM

TagsBDSM conservativism geek workshops

What was the point in satin and lace if…

TypesLust

Tagsfetish Lust power submission undergarments

Why does every woman know?..

Typesself-discovery

Tagsconsent feminism rape silence

Wordt het ruzie of sex?

Typesrelatie

Tagsruzie seks vechten voor

You WILL be restrained, you know…

TypesBDSM self-discovery

Tagsembarrassment life restrains sexuality shame

Your heart just breaks, that’s all

Typeslove

TagsAudrey Hepburn heartbreak liefde pijn

Your madness fits in nicely

Typeslove

Tagsgekte liefde passend Robert Wyatt

I hope you found some inspiration for your writings and/or your life…

Love,
Hans

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