Continually seduce consent from the bottom

Quote – BDSM

“The number one job of the dominant is to continually seduce consent from the bottom.”

Joseph Bean


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Sex doesn’t have to conform to society’s standards

Quote – BDSM

“Sex doesn’t have to conform to society’s standards to be sane. It doesn’t have to be slow and tender to be safe. And it doesn’t have to be free of leather cuffs to be consensual.”

Pam Godwin (in: Dark Notes)


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Having someone on their knees for you makes you vulnerable

Quote – BDSM

“I had no idea it would be like this. That having someone on their knees for you would make you so vulnerable.”

Alexis Hall (in: For Real)


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Is it the collar or the happiness?

Quote – BDSM

“You look extra beautiful tonight, Ker.”
“It’s the collar.”
“Maybe. I think it’s the happiness. You wear it well.”
“It’s the same thing.”

Sean Michael (in: Trust)


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S and M is only the expression in the bedroom of…

Quote – BDSM

“S and M is only the expression in the bedroom of an oppressive-submissive relation which can happen also in the kitchen or at the factory, can happen between people of any gender. There is obviously something titillating about these relationships, but it isn’t the sexual components that makes them ugly, they’re uglier elsewhere. Nothing sexual is depraved. Only cruelty is depraved, and that’s another matter.”

Marilyn French (in: Marilyn French)


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What the anti-kink fanatics don’t understand about us is that we’re geeks

Quote – BDSM

“That’s what’s so ironic about the conservative backlash against BDSMers. With increased visibility comes increased bigotry, and conservatives continue to rally against kinky events by local groups to get them shut down. What the anti-kink fanatics don’t understand about us is that we’re geeks. Sex nerds. SM intellectuals. We pay money to spend a weekend going to classes.”

Tristan Taormino (in: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge)


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The two parts of me…

Quote – BDSM

“Part of me wants to make this boy bruise, bleed, and sob, and part of me wants to soothe him and care for him. The typically complex yearnings of the kinkily queer.”

Jeff Mann


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It’s hard to turn the head off

Quote – BDSM

“It’s hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That’s part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can’t refuse anything and can’t even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.”

Cherise Sinclair (in: Dark Citadel)


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Everything is about sex

Quote – BDSM

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex… Sex is about power.”

Oscar Wilde<


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Being life’s bitch is no fun at all

Quote – BDSM

“By all means be submissive in the bedroom (if you are that way inclined), but don’t be submissive to life. Being life’s bitch is no fun at all. Life may play up in many ways, but it’s up to you to take control, take charge and show life who’s really calling the shots.”

Miya Yamanouchi (in: Embrace Your Sexual Self: A Practical Guide for Women)


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